Are these signs of dating abuse?
Are these signs of dating abuse?
The following is a list of some of the more common signs of dating abuse:
- Explosive temper
- Constantly putting you down
- Making false accusations
- Severe mood swings
- Extreme jealousy
- Checking your cell phone or email without permission
- Repeatedly pressuring you to have sex
- Isolating you from family or friends
- Telling you what to do
Answer: Yes, this is dating abuse. Also known as emotional abuse.
Dating abuse is a pattern of destructive behaviors used to exert power and control over someone. Relationships exist on a spectrum. Sometimes it can be very difficult to detect when a relationship crosses the line — to unhealthy or abusive. The above warning signs will give you an indication if your relationship is heading in the right direction. If you have any concerns, seek out a trusted adult or professional to confide in. This is NOT your fault. It is a personality pattern and the person is UNLIKELY to change, though you may see a temporary change in behavior. Time will tell.
Licensed counselor and founder of Girls Stand Strong Michelle Kelley, LCSW, helps girls and women of all ages develop and improve their self-image, self-esteem, relationship and communication skills, emotional understanding, coping skills, the ability to handle difficult situations and people, and resiliency to create a brighter, better and more successful tomorrow. For more information about Michelle’s coaching and counseling services, call (703) 505-2413 or email michelle@girlsstandstrong.com.
